5 Secrets to a Great Relationship 1. It is important to find a man who works around the house, occasionally cooks and cleans and who has a good job. 2. It is important to find a man who makes you laugh. 3. It is important to find a man who is dependable and doesn't lie. 4. It is important to find a man who's good in bed and who loves to have sex with you. 5. It is important that these four men never meet.